by Rebecca Davis | Jan 30, 2024 | guest post, survivor stories
From Rebecca: In November of 2018, I wrote a post about pastor James MacDonald setting his vision for Harvest Bible Chapel in the Chicago area. When his vision was boiled down to its essence with the Christian language removed, it looked to me just like a model for...
by Rebecca Davis | May 26, 2022 | challenging the status quo, For the Protectors, survivor stories
Eight years ago, in the fall of 2014, I had the opportunity to correspond with a member of the SBC Executive Committee about the SBC sexual abuse offender database that didn’t exist yet. His name was Roger Oldham, and he showed up in the 288-page investigative...
by Rebecca Davis | May 13, 2021 | survivor stories, untwisting Scriptures
I met Emily Elizabeth Anderson in January of this year, when she told me she had appreciated my Untwisting Scriptures books and asked to interview me on her blog, Thriving Forward. (You can find that interview here.) I knew she had come out of the Bill Gothard...
by Rebecca Davis | Apr 8, 2021 | For the Protectors, seeking Jesus, survivor stories
Many Christians of my fundamentalist and evangelical background are wary of the concept of “religious experience,” at least partly because it has been abused in some circles. After all, “experience” without knowledge can open one to error and evil. But if we as Jesus...
by Rebecca Davis | Oct 22, 2020 | For the Protectors, seeking Jesus, survivor stories, untwisting Scriptures
I’m delighted to post this week from my friend Rochelle Sadie’s blog My Dear Sister. In spite of her blog’s name, please know that this post is not only for women but for men as well, anyone who has been harmed by a spiritually abusive system and made to feel “small.”...
by Rebecca Davis | Nov 12, 2019 | challenging the status quo, For the Protectors, survivor stories
Erika Smith grew up in an abusive home in which the parents claimed Christianity. She is still a follower of Jesus in spite of the way she and her siblings were treated by her parents and the casual “forgive and forget” dismissal she has received from churches where...